Hi Pins
Welcome
I know you'll find lot of help and support here.
I don't know any way to cut down on drinking tho.
I tried that, in every permutation, for 20 years.
Every year my life got a little worse through my drinking, and I got a little more stubborn (and desperate) about finding a way to keep alcohol in my life
I see you've totalled your car, been arrested, attempted suicide....and yet you, like me, still want to get wasted.
It took me a long trip down but the only thing that worked for me was cutting out drinking completely.
Are you open to that idea?
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