I can relate 100%. I have 3 kiddos - the oldest 6 years-old with special needs and the youngest turning 1 this week. I have had to be completely responsible to every aspect of their lives. I can occassionally get him to make a bottle or change a diaper. I have no outside support and since I am a SAHM our finances are too tight to hire any help. It is exhausting. Not to mention being caregiver to my AH.