Originally Posted by
MCESaint 
AW asked said a few days back: "aren't you going to yell at me?"
....allow me to complete her thought...."Aren't you going to yell at me so that I will have an excuse to drink?"
I've always appreciated this is a very important change in dynamics .... and a critical piece of the Al-Anon puzzle....when we stop yelling, pleading, crying, and wringing our hands. Where to they look for their excuses now? They have nowhere to go but "IN". It's one step in the right direction.
Good for you, Saint.
