Thank you for responding quickly and clearly to my post.
It seems that while I was trying to see what will I do, he had already decided he wants us to take a break or something.
We spoke on the phone, he said he needs some time to think and see what he is going to do with his life (about issues other than drinking, like his job etc.) and that this doesn t mean we will not meet, but we ll take it easy etc.
Well, except for the sadness it makes me feel to know that he s kinda breaking up,
I think that this could be a way of him saying that he has his issues that he has to solve. And obviously, drinking is one of these issues. Now he didn t say it, but I d like to think that this is a beginning for him to see what to do with the booze.
So...I suppose this is a good thing for both of us