Originally Posted by
suki44883 
Since he has been physically violent in the recent past, I would be very careful what I say around him. You never know what might set him off, especially if he is always drinking, as you say.
Thanks for pointing that out. I guess that's another reason, with me being tired and all and him drinking, his desire to see my today, like face to face is soooo not what I want. I also see in our phone conversations his resentments surfacing and his moods flipping. That's why I turned my phone off.
Lexiecat -
A sponsor isn't there to "control" you, but she IS there to help you learn new ways of thinking and behaving. Just like a teacher, or a coach, or a mentor. If you wanna learn, you gotta listen and ask questions. ESPECIALLY if you are also trying to un-learn old ways of thinking and behaving that weren't serving you really well.
Thanks, after my nap I'm going to call her.