I think what you mean isn't so much that you want a "fight," but that you're looking for something outside of yourself to make the decision for you. I know that feeling, because I was waiting for someone else to take over the reins and send me a clear signal as to what I was supposed to do.
Turns out, I couldn't delegate my own life. I had already been honest with myself as to what my boundaries were, and watched those boundaries get crossed one by one. I wasn't waiting for a sign as to what to do, I was waiting for my own recovery to strengthen to the point that I felt healthy enough to stand up and face my life again.