Hi and welcome!
Who knows what side the world is LOL
sure as heck not me.
I'm glad you found us
and found the courage to post.
SR is a WONDERFUL tool
when used along with therapy
and other outside resources
connected to recovery.
I feel you've done the right thing by posting here.
The questions you're asking
are exactly the questions
heard in the rooms at Alanon.
Of course they're also asked here...
but when you get more than one dimension going...
things change.
Have you looked them up in your area?
These people are connected.
They are dedicated to support
and they're 3-D.
It takes more than one tool to build a vehicle.
I'm so glad you're here!
Welcome!