I second that please find a meeting and if you are in it for the long term I would find a counselor, books like co-dependent no more. I am currently reading "It Could Never Happen to Me" it is about being raised in an addictive home. I also see a counselor every week, I make sure I do something nice for my self every week. Before my back suregery I went out with friends a couple times a week and took the kids out a couple times a week. What I am saying is that what I read was a lot about him and not much about you. I think that in order to help anyone we need to know who we are first and we need to make ourselves happy and healthy first. My thoughts and prayer will be with you
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