5JumpChump,
I havent heard that term in ages, it actually made me smile.
Are you active duty now?
I'm not much of a handholder especially with strangers but I am going to look at Al-Anon.
don't think of them as a bunch of handholders then.
they are comrades in arms fighting the same losing battle you are.
the only victory can be found in recovery for you and your daughter.
beth
(army veteran, active duty spouse and dependent before the word became non PC.)