there are alot of stickys to read...and for you please find AL ANON, it will help..trust me
one thing to always remember:
The 3 C's
you did not cause this
you can not control it
and there is not cure for it
once you see this...everything SLOWLY at your pace, comes together...go into my blogs i have alot of slogans there to read, and what they mean....
god bless
she needs to change HERSELF by herself...you cant do that...this will be here willing
but you can...in AL ANON...