I've never been to Muir Woods lol
MJ I think a lot of us become really sensitive to others drinking when we quit. I think it's ever more so when it's a partner.
I don't know the dynamics of your relationship, but if you think this issue is more about you than it is about him...if it was me? I'd leave it.
I barely notice others drinking now and never feel resentful or obsessive about it...it does get a lot easier.
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