Originally Posted by
ladyhawk69 
Welcome to SR although sorry about the situation in which it brings you. Your story sounds very familiar to me and my only advice to you is to sit back and take note of the RED FLAGS that are presented to you. Clean or not, it sounds like he is still in "manipulation" mode. Nothing YOU did caused this, nothing YOU do will cure it. Take care of yourself and let the chips fall where they may. If he is serious about his recovery, HE will do the work. There is nothing you can do for him at this point. Checking on him to see if he's ok? He's a big boy...he got himself in there, he's gonna have to get himself out. All of this is said with love.
thanks
i know he lied to me a couple weekend ago. He had called me and told me he was doing something for his mom....which is a total lie because 1) he was in a car and doesn't own one and 2) it's the same thing he told his boss when he was late to work. I pretty positive he was getting drugs.