Originally Posted by
Fandy 
(maybe drop the kids at grandparents for a couple of hours and run *errands* if you want to avoid the arguments and are not ready to discuss with them)...this way you are not keeping the kids away, but they are not controlling your actions?
That's a good idea Fands, I think I am going ask them if they want me to drop the boys off after school at their house one or two days next week. It would be a good way to break the ice. Thank you
