Dealing with a crazy parent
I have realized that my mother and I cannot have a healthy relationship. It only took me 42 years to realize it. Whatever I say to her gets spinned into something that doesn't even resemble what I said. She adds or deletes words then makes it all about her. It is crazy making. The last time she put a spin on things I told her that I will only communicate with her via e-mail since things I say get distorted. It's the craziest thing I've ever dealt with. It's also very sad to know you can't have the relationship you wanted and needed with a parent. If anyone else is experiencing this, you're not alone. Letting go and changing the things I can to make a healthier life for me.