It's only at home with me that the real him comes out.
It seems the therapist is able to pick up on his less than perfect projection of himself.
And yes, I certainly agree that a childs safety is more important than an active alcoholics feelings about it.
I hope you feel better after getting validated by the therapist. I know I felt better when someone from the outside would point out the obvious or "be on my side."
that is what my ex called it. geez.
Beth