The hardest part for me with step three is that I don't believe in God. I'm not just an agnostic either. I try to be a "spiritual atheist" and I get up and turn my life over but I am not sure what it is, though I have always had a sense of some superior form of help that comes through energy or other people. But it's hard for me to keep in touch with that a lot due to I am not an easy sell on the higher power concept. But I'm working at my own version of it. It's the best i can do.