Hey Bam!
I think it is because so many people are in different stages of recovery and some people are also less familiar with SR. I know when I first got here I got a lot of posts deleted (and I always try tone careful online). When I see a postthese days that makes me angry I now try and look at it from any direction and ask myself if my response will help anyone...especially the thread originator.
But it took me a bit to get there And a lot of words from Dee.
Hugs.