Yeah the logical thing to do is leave,but it's not that black and white.We are a gay couple and I made the awful mistake of adding him to my deed.So without legal recourse I would have to leave my home of 28 years,that I paid for. Maybe I'm not right in the head but I am not willing to do that. Why should I leave MY home? He won't sign off or leave so whats my options? I know I have alot to learn and am trying but on this issue I have problems.
Not only did I lose my high paying job three years ago (due to the economy) I really would have hardship leaving my home. Factor in my age and a lousy job now and I feel trapped.
I know I'm not married but have a whole set of other legal roadblocks in my way.I guess I was just wanting confimation that I was not alone in having these thoughts.If I am being honest here also it kind of makes me feel stupid when people tell others to just leave.Easier said then done.Also if everyone just left there would not be much need for forums.
I feel like a idiot