ilovemydaughter - i could have written your post i would just have to change the name to ilovemyson - i never took what he did personally - i know my son and i know he wouldn't be uncaring without the influence of the drugs - he has always had the most tender heart - i have continued through it all to tell him that i know who he is and i will not let him forget that wonderful person - he is working his way back to being that person now - just a more mature, wiser version -