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Old 03-07-2011, 03:49 PM
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JohnBarleycorn
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Originally Posted by LexieCat View Post
Most of us didn't stay out of bars because of the potential for meeting "less-than-savory individuals," and I've met more creepos in a single night at a bar than I've met in months of AA meetings.

When's the last time you darkened an AA door, John?
Young women often choose to go to bars with friends rather than alone for precisely this reason, do they not?

I went to a meeting twice in the last week, four times the previous week. The truth is that there are unsavory individuals in some of the rooms.

While I am not a woman, I was going to gay bars in my teens. I do have some knowledge of predatory older-male behavior. Given the option, they older guys will scope out and go for the young ones - fresh meat.

I saw similar behavior at the gay AA meetings.

Being forewarned is being forearmed.

- JBC
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