Know how you feel. I was grateful to have someone come and talk with me some of the times when I went to a new meeting location.
When people didn't talk with me, I always felt lonely. I have been going several months now and sometimes someone comes to talk with me and also I am able to reach out on my own and talk with someone.
I have even been thinking about reaching out to a new person, but not quite there yet.
Going to Alanon is helping me to understand my level of comfort with connection.
Hope you keep going.