Thank you all
So much for all of your advice and support. This is true he has to deal on his own. I know deep down this is the truth, and you are correct, this is his issue to handle. I just wish I wasn't so damn nice, then this would be so much easier for me. My mother also had a drinking problem, so maybe it was easier in some way for me to let him in. I will still continue for my own sake to stop drinking, but I hope that one day he can come to terms with himself. Thanks again, this insight is surely appreciated. I am going to continue educating myself with this site, as it is surely helpful.