Originally Posted by
Tuffgirl 
When he is scared and hurting, he pushes me away even further. When I am scared and hurting, he mocks me. The difference is disgusting, when you put it in that perspective.
Wow. That is my "R"AH to a t. Except that while he is pushing me away when he is hurting and scared, he also expects me to read his mind, comfort him and do it in the way he wants (and says he doesn't know what it is that he wants but that he knows what he DOESN'T want when he sees it and that that is all I give him!).
Total insanity.