Yes
Yes, the abuse was towards me. The first time, and also the last. I was talking with his father and he asked if "He had been drinking". I told him yes, and then he asked to speak to his son. When I handed him the phone, he listened for a moment then threw the phone at me. At the time, my daughter actually walked outside and called the police, since he would not stop blubbering. When the police arrived he actually acted as if he had no clue why he was there. I have decided since in our conversation, he actually is still blaming me, he is no where near recovering. In the future I will avoid his calls. I hope one day he can forgive himself, and that he finds inner peace. This could probably take him years. I would have thought after a month he would at least recognize he has a problem, and it is his fault and only his fault, but I was wrong.