Originally Posted by
gigi58 
went from great to nothing
Gigi, that's exactly what happened to me. The RA I was involved with came on very strong in the beginning and then would slowly pull away and stop communicating, but he acted like I was the one pulling away and not communicating. It confused me and drove me crazy. He still contacts me several times a week and tells me he loves me and misses me, quack quack quack, but I don't let it pull me back into the craziness anymore. Now I keep my distance and keep our conversations on the friendly side. I felt like I lost myself in that relationship and never want to feel like that again
. After my experience with him I have no desire to ever get involved with a RA every again. BIG lesson learned for me!