[QUOTE=MelissaNoDrugs;2888740]hmmm three years of "clean time" smoking weed and now taking oxys. Wow, when exactly did "clean" get re-defined to be whatever we like it? I always thought clean was clean, I guess I'm just old fashioned.[/QUOTE
Yes, I agree. Clean means clean... and he smokes pot daily... not so clean. I suppose I am quoting what he considers 'clean' which is not using meth and cocaine, that almost killed him and destroyed his life. He always says he has 3 years clean time. He now holds a job, looks after his kids, and leads a more stable life, although not the ideal. I guess when I say this, in comparison to what took place, this looks 'clean' from hard drugs.
I know his life would be better without the weed, but I can not convince him of this and gave up long ago. However, I am concerned about this attitude with the oxy. It alarms me... I wont stay for this. I cant.