Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy 
I am not seen as a saint for putting up with my husband, in fact I am seen as the problem and it is he with the saintly reputation (yes, even after being arrested he is the victim!).
So, I wish I could pin my reasons for staying on that martyr issue but I think my reasons are bc of fear of the unknown, fear of what if this is all I do deserve and fear that I won't find anything better.
Yeah, have had all of those problems at various times, the last two were the things that I really got hung up on.
But it finally got to the point where I realized that there was absolutely no future in continuing down the road I was on. What we call a
bottom.