Hey CW,
I couldn't start setting boundaries until I started exploring who I was. Using the steps to get to know me helped me decide what I really wanted and didn't want. Once I knew myself, I gained the self confidence to let others know who I was, and in the process where my boundaries were. Some of the people in my life didn't like who I was and who I was becoming. I didn't push them away. They either accepted me for who I was, or they pulled away. Boundaries just happened as a result of me growing and not trying to be something I wasn't for others' approval. Hugs, Magic