Mcribb-
It's clear you're working the steps as you stated above, so when I feel "uncentered" it's time to start checking a few things and I think you hit "the nail on the head".
You mention making coffee. Perfect! Do something, anything for someone else.
Also, check your praying habits. Are you taking the time each day?
...and finally, man some days I'm just not as good as I am on others. I guess this is what life is, but I'm still working on it just like you.
One thing I know for sure is a grateful recovering alcoholic in AA simply won't drink.
Kjell