Don't feel sickened! I think it's common to get swept up in the early passion and to make grand gesture of self-sacrifice for the new partner. I met XAH in...May, he "broke up" with his then-wife (babymama #3) by June/July, and by September, he was living with me and I was supporting him and his son. He jumped ship from one enabler to another. Pretty smart, huh?