We no longer have a Alano organization in my town.
about 5 years ago we voted to disband it.
about a year ago my home group ...once the only meeting
in the county ... branched out and began the 2nd meeting...
Both groups rent spaces ..neither are in a church.
Option 3 I supose....
I attend both......as do others...so no....I see no difference.
Between the 2...we have 40 meetings weekly...
Gossip? some people do...others do not......just the same as with
any group of people.
You always have the option to not participate.