Sadly, I was very disappointed that he chose his beer over me, but reality said that was a possiblity.
There is the possibility that he is already dependent on alcohol.
I just wanted to say that he is not really picking alcohol over you, the alcohol has him now.
I am not making excuses for him, I agree if he is an alcoholic in denial (looks acts and quacks like a duck) then you should not make any long range plans with him.
I am a RA and it took me twenty years to stop. I was highly motivated and practically giddy at getting some help.
He says he doesnt have a problem, when it is a problem to you, is well..........a big problem.
Beth