Hi Moose, I don't post often anymore but this I had to reply to. Your grandson needs you and what you can offer him in life. Grandbabies need that connection and a sense of family as they grow up. I have 3 grandsons and noone will ever tell or be hurt by the fact that I spend time with them. Thats not an option in my life. Enjoy that lil guy and how else would he get to you but with his mom. Enjoy Florida and the warmth.