Peacetrain,
I haven't ever had any issues with the baby's momma, and I leave all MY opinions in a sealed box when I speak with her. She attends college, and works.
She has NEVER been disrespectful, or had words with me, or Mr. Moose, actually, I like the girl, and it helps that she takes good care of my grandson.
He is always fed, clothed well, and clean, and THAT'S what is important to me. Plus, she has said, he would always be in our lives. It may help that we help her out alot also, by babysitting, I take her to lunch, etc.
BUT, I do that because I enjoy her company.
I just have to find a way to rid myself of my own son, who IS disrespectful, and hurtful. I like the baby momma way more than I like my own son, sad, but true.
I think I should write him a letter, maybe that way, I could get out MY feelings without being overpowered by him, but then again, why bother.
It's not going to change his Narcissistic views of everything.