Originally Posted by
Learn2Live 
Not sure how old the kids are but if it were me, for the kids' sake, I'd remove the bottle from their room and tell her not to put alcohol in the kids' rooms. If it were pot, coke or heroin, or a bottle of Drano, would you leave it in the kids room? It's all the same to me.
Good point, L2L. You can't control it but you sure as hell can lay down some boundaries. When it comes to the kids there should be no wavering on it.