Originally Posted by
OklaBH 
basically the relationship is ruined and over.
Hi,
I'm new so not an expert on anything, including myself!
But I hope later you can look at this sentence and see that it is very black and white, and not neccessarily true. It is, however, a natural way to feel when you are overwhelmed and still very close to the situation.
Good for you for thinking about this and asking for feedback. Hope that some time and distance will help you to see things in a different light.
D