where I get the most frustrated is when he would say, you didnt tell me that....how all of a sudden can i come home from work with a movie in my hand ready to apologize to you and I walk in and the house is completly empty......(I did that once)
I am thinking, it doesnt matter if you leave or how you leave.....he is going to think no matter what, I was wrong and he was right......and how could I make such boundaries......and not have talked to him about it..........I have let him do these things for so many years now......why am I changing the rules.........what he is not getting for once in our 10 years this isnt about him.....this is about me now.........