Originally Posted by
Supercrew 
I think the misperception that most people don't get is even if some people may be saying they want to quit, the reality is on some subconscious level they really don't want to give it up.
^ this is completely true for me! I often say here that when I shifted my focus from "I really want to stop drinking so much" to "I really want to live a sober life", everything changed.