Welcome, Rod, and thanks for joining us! This site is an amazing place with lots of wonderful people who have tons of experience and support to share with you. I'm glad you're here.
There are those of us who have had some success dealing with our obsession with alcohol, and we use lots of different tools. My advice to you is to find someone who seems to have what you're looking for, ask them how they got there, and follow their advice. When you're trying to get somewhere, there's nothing like following someone who has gone there before you.
Again, I'm thankful you're here, and I hope you have an awesome day!