Thanks D & Ann
You know, Im scared I guess. Im scared for him, not me. Im fine and strong. Its the fear of loosing him too, one way or the other, u know?
This morning, I looked into the sky and asked, why?
Why do I have to go through it again.
Ive pretty much always trusted my instincts even if I dont want to believe something. My instinct tells me he took the money. My problem is I have this need for a consequence for him, (he cant get away with it) but on the other hand, I know hes desperate to take that much money. The addiction, again. To be honest, he is so good at lying, you almost believe him. Hes my son, I want to support him, get him help, but I keep hearing those "he needs to do it himself blah blah" advice posts. After loosing my sister Im not sure I can wait, again, for him to do it himself. Hes nearly 24.
Do I try to talk to him again and suggest a rehab situation or do I ask him to leave because of the money? Thats my predicament.