Going through the same thing right now. I can not stand the sweetness and still trying to get me to go away with him even after his Valentine Weekend plans. I said no. Funny how they can act so sweet when they want to.
I think they do it to A) Suck us back in and B) When we finally snap because they keep pressurring (sp) us, they can say what a bitch she is, I was just trying to be nice.
I have so had it with the whole friggin dance.