I can't say that my AW has ever been sober for longer than 20 days so it's good to read a story where someone makes it longer than that...
For me, I more or less expect relapses to happen. This way I'm not so let down when it does. Each day she's sober, is a pleasant surprise. It isn't normal thinking and it's not right but at least it's a little peace and quiet so I can keep concentrating on my own recovery.