Thanks everyone, I think the visit to the lawyer is in order.
I think I need to come around to the realisation that she most likely will never seek receovery, but will gravitate to where the last drinks can be paid for.
We live in a rural area and the support groups for the various meetings she attended are 20 miles away. Taxis will cost a fortune, but she has been know to drink drive.
Don't want to be a barrier to her getting to these.
I had hoped that her bottom would be the realisation that she coulad actually lose her family, us moving out being the first step, but I sense it is actually not the bottom for her.
Sover living facility? Not sure that exists in the west of ireland!