That guy is good. He told you exactly what you needed to hear. It's all stuff you probably already knew, but to have someone actually say the words sometimes means more than us just thinking them.
There comes a time, if you truly want to save yourself, that you have to let that other person sink or swim of their own accord. When we finally hit our own bottom, and walk away, it doesn't mean we no longer care. We just realize that we can't help them and they are taking us down with them. It's self preservation that makes us finally be willing to take care of ourselves and stop taking responsibility for someone who refuses to do the same.
I truly hope that the words you heard today will resonate with you and that you will decide that YOU deserve to be healthy and happy and that you just won't ever be if you don't make that happen.
