Originally Posted by
Tuffgirl 
UPDATE:
Well, I went. And now I am home again. No drama, no contact, no sight (as far as I know...I saw him but I don't think he saw me).
Fear of proximity conquered - check.
No lightening bolts to strike me down in the parking lot- check.
Beautiful full moon on the drive home - check.
Kids happy because they got to go to the gym while I was at the meeting and got extra smoothies from the nice girl working the counter - check.
What was I so afraid of, after all? Oh yeah - me.
Fear of making stupid decisions conquered - check. At least for today!
Good for you!
Question: Is your husband working the steps with a good sponsor? If so then your attending the meeting near his meeting shouldn't be an issue if he is "getting the heart of the program of losing the selfish behavior".
If you get a bunch of flak from him it will give you an accurate guage of his selfish meter at this point in his recovery. Just smile nicely and suggest he discuss it with his sponsor as you discussed the subject thoroughly with the entire internet community of Sober Recovery and got the thumbs up! That should be a jaw dropper (just kidding by the way
