Thanks everyone for all the advice. We have been married for almost 9 years and we do have a son. I can't see myself leaving at this point, but I have already started the separating of finances. I will check into the meetings and keep reading the other posts.
I've thought about giving him ultimatums, getting rid of all the alcohol I could find, telling his parents for support, but I haven't done any of these things yet. I'm just not sure what my next step should be.
Thanks everyone for listening.