Originally Posted by
Learn2Live 
It would probably be helpful for you to read a book on Alcoholism. And given that you are an adult child of an alcoholic, I'm willing to bet you'd benefit from AlAnon.
If had occured to me from time to time that maybe I should check out AlAnon. I know what they are.
I'm attracted to this guy because at his superbowl party he has gone out of his way to please me. And he has a house, pics on the wall, a life, thriving business and Christian values. I started to become interested before I even knew there was the posibility of a drinking problem.
My father never was an alcoholic. He was about to leave my mother when she became one, though they made it through it. If I get involved with this guy, and he doesn't address his drinking problem immediately, I'M LEAVING HIM. No, he WILL change, or "poof" I go. I'll organize an intervention then "poof" I go.