Just a thought..how about kicking his arse to the curb if you can get him out that is? With all that abuse, the police could be involved, an AVO put in place so that he can't go near any of you within 100 meteres. Voila, problem solved. But I know, that's easier said than done. My exAH was a rager like yours is. Eventually I had to get the police involved because the abuse escalated when I said I wanted to separate. I feel for you and your family and I wish you luck with your plan. That's no way to live for any of you.
