oh good topic...
I'm not going to promise I won't say these things to him because I may..but I doubt it would matter he's too wrapped up in his own selfishness and sickness to even care about me or anything that I find important.
I would say:
I was the best thing that ever happened to you and you blew it. All on your own, no one else to blame.
You ARE a selfish Pri$% ...I totally agree and if your looking for me to disagree and say "oh honey don't say that" ...as I have before..well I lied. You are what you are. Deal with it and live with it.
You are going to be miserable. You won't last 2 days alone. Good luck and good riddance!
Your doing me a favor by leaving me and the kids. Your giving me the oppty to have a good and happy life without your drama and trauma. Thank you for having the courage to let me go.