Hi Lilamy, I don't think he's doing it for my benefit. We agreed to try to work things out a week ago. I lasted 5 days, until I said I can't work this out, it's too painful. The whole time we were supposed to be working on things he ignored me. I made 2 attempts to go out on a date with him and was turned down so he could sit home on the computer and drink. He seemed relieved when I said it wouldn't work and the next day is when he turned into an angel. I don't think it's for me, but for the girls or an attempt to hurt me by trying to divert their attention from me (we're very close).
I almost wish it was to win me back, then at least I'd have the comfort of knowing that he cared (but that's sick too).
Thanks for listening. I feel so bad/torn about this.